** ADDS is Your Worldwide Domestic Discipline Community Home Page!

All members & readers of A Domestic Discipline Society discussion groups, social sites & blog. Collectively you made ADDS the largest, most read, most active Domestic Discipline Community worldwide. We promise to continue to present only the best DD information, news & resources. Thank you for making ADDS your DD HOME PAGE for Everything DD!


A Domestic Discipline Society (Overview and Links)

Opening page

Bookmark Page

This *ADDS* site is based on Domestic Discipline Education, Information and Knowledge sharing focused on HoHs & TiHs and those interested in ALL variations of real Domestic Discipline lifestyles.

The A Domestic Discipline Society (ADDS) site is for anyone interested in the Domestic Discipline lifestyle choice. ADDS is a Domestic Discipline Homepage for everything DD. DD News, Information, Education, Articles, Series, Resources, Hundreds of DD & DD Friendly Links & The Original FREE DD GUIDE.

A Domestic Discipline Society® is featured on several alternative lifestyle sites, and collectively has the largest membership and is the most active Domestic Discipline discussion community worldwide. A Domestic Discipline Society® is where all the varying styles of  the DD lifestyle are brought together in one place.  A melting pot of open minded people, where no one is judged for their differences. All respectful DD based opinions & ideas are welcome and encouraged. We are all here to share our knowledge and help each other understand and grow in this unique lifestyle. That's what has always made ADDS the best place to learn about DD and the most popular DD community in the world. The ADDS members are the ones who share their knowledge with each other through posts and replying to one another. What some "blogs" and sites might call Guest Writers, we call Members. Anyone can comment on a thread, but if you're a Member here and have an idea for your own thread... just let me know! As this new A Domestic Discipline Society site grows, you"ll have the insight of ADDS members that have been posting and replying over the  years on various ADDS discussion groups. Opinions here are from non judgmental, progressive, receptive individuals who are single, in a relationship or married couples either living within the various styles of Domestic Discipline as a respectful lifestyle choice or seeking insightful information on the DD lifestyle choice.  

Best of all it's FREE 
Sharing your knowledge with others should be done with an altruistic nature.
Learning about the Domestic Discipline lifestyle should be FREE.


ADDS Domestic Discipline Description:

 (Short version / Originally Published 2006) 

Domestic Discipline is a consensual relationship lifestyle choice. 
Domestic Discipline is the consensual practice of a subtle Dominant and submissive type of lifestyle, with the emphasis on the relationship first. Then and only then, are spanking as disciplinary actions or any type of punitive ideas discussed. The Dominant partner is known as the Head of Household (HOH). The submissive partner is Taken in Hand (TIH). When implemented ideally, DD is the caring, consensual, consistently fair use of structure, accountability and discipline as a positive way to enhance communication, deepen intimacy and reinforce relationship commitment. The discipline normally includes one of many styles of  disciplinary actions or measures, but first centers around rules of behavior asked for by one partner and agreed to by the other.

The degree of power given to the HOH varies. Some couples may choose to have only a few agreed upon rules with set consequences, while others choose for the HOH to have a more encompassing leadership role.

The most important detail to note is that there is no one set way to live the lifestyle and each couple modifies it meet their needs. Furthermore, the lifestyle is always entered upon with a consensual agreement between the partners. Couples outline the specific terms they have agreed upon so that there is no confusion.

Spanking styles include- OTK, Erotic, Sensual, Maintenance, Reminder, Therapeutic, Cathartic, Playful, and varying degrees of  Disciplinary Action & Punishment spankings to name only a few.

Some Common Implements- HAND, smaller OTK style paddles & more conventional paddles of all styles, Hairbrush, Wooden Spoon to name a few of the most common. Depending on the couple implements may also include Leather straps, Belt, Cane... or anything the couple decides to bring into their lifestyle.

Other disciplinary actions might include, corner time, time-out, sent to room, revocation of privileges, writing lines etc... Again, it depends on each specific couple/household.

Some of the ADDS LINKS:

A Domestic Discipline Society (ADDS) was founded by the highly patient and experienced HoH & DD educator named MrBBSpanker in 2005. ADDS grew quickly as an open minded discussion based format. Because of the extensive and active ADDS Members, ADDS has been a leader in defining Domestic Discipline as a respectful & consensual relationship lifestyle choice. MrBB & ADDS have been an integral part of bringing definitive DD information to the continuously growing community through social media, discussion groups and this ADDS site. The ADDS site has quickly become The Worldwide DD Homepage for Everything DD.
If you'd like to read extensive posts, threads, replies and opinions from the many thousands of ADDS members and readers worldwide... come join us using these links:

* NEW Facebook acct, Bradain Blazer: they wouldn't allow a variation of MrBB, or B Blazer Come over and Friend me! There's going to be an ADDS Group soon also! >>>>> https://www.facebook.com/bradain.blazer

On Twitter #DomesticDiscipline:  Follow Domestic Discipline @MrBBSpanker

Largest Domestic Discipline group on FetLife: A Domestic Discipline Society on Fetlife

The largest Interest Group on Spanko: A Domestic Discipline Society on Spanko

PRIVATE, A Domestic Discipline Society Page on GOOGLE+ >>>  ADDS on GOOGLE+

ALL DD & Spanking Blogs Community: DD & Spanking Blog & Author Community on G+

A Domestic Discipline Bloggers Community: DD Bloggers Community on G+

The DD Chat Room: >>> The Domestic Discipline Community Chat Room

First DD style group on ALT (Chat Room): A Domestic Discipline Society on ALT
(click, then search A Domestic Discipline Society from Groups tab)

Follow MrBBSpanker on Google+ as B Blazer (MrBB): MrBB on Google+

ADDS Yahoo Group: A Domestic Discipline Society on Yahoo Groups

Wordpress Blog:  A Domestic Discipline Society Wordpress Blog
(under construction/ for future use)

NEW on Pinterest: ADDS on Pinterest

More Info & sites where ADDS is featured: Contact MrBBSpanker
Do you have a compatible site/blog, & would you like to share links? Contact MrBB :)

CLICK! banner below for Free & Original DD Boot Camp Information