A Letter for you, from MrBBSpanker

So far, this site is filled with information that has been developed over many years of living the DD lifestyle choice (even before it was called DD) and the honor of  Mentoring and Teaching others who live this lifestyle dynamic. I understood when finally "officially" launching this site that there were a lot of things to learn and the blog format might pose some challenges. Those challenges would include... >>>>>

So far, this site is filled with information that has been developed over many years of living the DD lifestyle choice (even before it was called DD) and the honor of  Mentoring and Teaching others who live this lifestyle dynamic. I understood (19 days ago) when finally "officially" launching this site that there were a lot of things to learn and the blog format might pose some challenges. Those challenges would include years of ideas, tools and information being published quickly and chronologically in reverse and then having to copy write everything before posting etc, etc etc, the list goes on and on. But at the same time, once I began I didn't want to water down the information either. I knew I still needed to present the "Where to Start" series in a detailed step by step format that would include a phraseology and acronyms new to some people in the DD lifestyle community. What I didn't realize is the overwhelmingly positive and appreciative splash it would create and the ripple effect being a flood of nearly a hundred emails to the gmail account attached to this site. So, I thought I would take this opportunity to reiterate that the information and tools in the series that has kicked off this site, can take several months or up to a year to fully develop within a relationship. Take your time, be patient with one another and take one step at a time up the stairway to your DD lifestyle dynamic.

A persons home life and the intricate dynamics within their relationship are private and shared at the discretion of an individual or couple. Over time, I know that the discretion and privacy of using the suggested phrases and acronyms usually help bring a couple closer together. It gives a little extra spring to the shared leap of faith they have decided to take with each other. And it's like they have their own secret language that only they share!

My intent while writing the first series for this blog is to share my past experience with singles learning and couples beginning and adding to their relationships. I hope people use these tested and developed ideas, suggestions and, tools in their discussions. Each individual and couple will of course decide how to grow and develop more ideas that they will hopefully bring back and share with all of us here.

As those of you who have lived or are currently in a DD lifestyle relationship already understand, we are all growing and learning no matter how long we live this unique lifestyle. So, any new ideas or improvements on what is here are always welcome :) 

I appreciate the many many supportive and flattering compliments and also any constructive ideas for improvement that I have been receiving via email. (adomesticdisciplinesociety@gmail.com) 
If you have an article you would like to post here on ADDS, please email me and I would love to post your well thought out articles and ideas based specifically on DD as a respectful lifestyle choice. 

I also noticed while researching and preparing to write this blog, that the comments on some blogs drop in all over the place. So, I am also going to put up a new Kudos and Comments tab that will appear at the top of every page for those readers who have comments, kudos, suggestions and tools to share! That way, hopefully the Comments on each specific articles comment page can be an in depth look at the information presented in that particular article. And there can be a place for ongoing, different and new ideas and suggestions on the new tab.  As this site continues to grow and grow, this will help keep the information organized, clear and defined. I hope you enjoy the improvements, there are more coming soon! :) 

Click here to continue to new: Kudos and Comments Tab!

                            Thanks again for comments and the emails, keep them coming!