tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post1070931165575643406..comments2024-02-16T20:07:38.503-07:00Comments on A Domestic Discipline Society (ADDS): Spanking, Disciplinary Spanking, Punishment Spanking, Experiment Spanking & Safe-WordsMrBBSpankerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-64850755922227932022016-10-07T14:00:57.888-07:002016-10-07T14:00:57.888-07:00I get so turned on giving my girlfriend all kinds ...I get so turned on giving my girlfriend all kinds of spankings, from erotic to just because spanking and even real ones that make her loss her composure, cry and sob. I see it as a gift of submission she gives me. Fortunately, I have a girlfriend who likes it also. She actually turned me on to it and brought out the spanko in me. Is it wrong to admit that I enjoy it? I get so turned on as I watch take her pants down knowing that she has given me full permission to spank her or sometime give her a real one. I have conflicting emotions inside. I don't like woman who are abused but I like spanking my girlfriend now. Its like is a psychological afrodeysic to me. I love the control aspect, its like asking me to discipline her is the ultimate sign of respect and I feel honored she choose me to have that authority. The actual spanking is exciting to me also. I mean when I turn her over my knee and it completely consensual I feel so stimulated by the whole experience. Seeing her beautiful bare bottom in front of me knowing she expecting me to spank her and sometimes until she is crying hysterically is huge rush. Is it wrong to feel good about having that authority and power she gave me. I also really get turned on when I start to spank her usually start out with my hand to start with. I am so stimulated when I see her clench up tight and I see all the muscular definition of her butt cheecks. It is electifying for me to hear her react and I feel compelled to smack harder and faster. To see her feet fluttering and her ass cheecks are turning red to bright red, its like I go into a trance in my mind. The longer the spanking goes on the more I get turned on and I am not sure if I should feel guilty of that or not? I have never seen her do the post spanking hop I heard some described but I might bring that up to my Jill. I usually use my belt over my knee for discipline and I feel the powerful sense of power and authority as I began removing it and I feel extremely respected by Jill as she begins dropping her pants when I order her too. Is something wrong with me, that after experienced spanking someone that I discovered that I really like it myself?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-45446273112590561212016-01-26T23:22:27.316-07:002016-01-26T23:22:27.316-07:00Sometimes when my boyfriend starts backing off whe...Sometimes when my boyfriend starts backing off when I start to struggle feels like counterproductive in discipline punishment style spanking. If it that type of spanking and my boyfriend back off or stops, I feel I’m letting him down even though I have relinquished control of this spanking to him. Sometimes I actual asked for a real no nonsense spanking about every other month or so. I like this power exchange that happens and I feel the of energy and cathartic release from being spanked beyond being able to make words. It’s that feeling of not being in control anymore and while the pain is intense and physical I want it to stop and I and I’m yelling, begging and for it to stop, deep inside I want need him continue and turn it up notch and keep going until I change from yelling into a pillow to crying hard and getting that endorphin release. Sure I have burses and welts but that tranquil feeling of being centered again is wonderful. The pain from the spanking is catalyst to release negative emotions. So, sometimes I do ask for a no-nonsense no safe word spanking with no specified number and keep going until I really sobbing. As I am pushing my jeans and panties down, sometimes I have to remind my boyfriend before the spanking start to not to back off just because I am starting to struggle and to actual start the non stop rapid fire swats with no pauses between whacks until I get that sobbing release. I have to remind him that for this one, he gets to decide when I had enough and I trust him explicitly and I really want this. I have to remind of that because he is always so gentle and has always stopped when I yell out safe word. He's big softy and doesn’t ever want to hurt me. But every one in a while, I need and want a real blistering with his office belt or the flat part of the handle of a bamboo backscratcher from the dollar store he has, or a combination of both.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-48486451863616200472015-08-09T16:04:38.570-07:002015-08-09T16:04:38.570-07:00Hi Lani :)
There are a lot of people who have a sa...Hi Lani :)<br />There are a lot of people who have a safeword, but haven't needed to use it. But, just having one there in reserve is an important aspect of a DD relationship and the consent needed from both partners. MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-60041083322000965622015-08-09T08:25:52.425-07:002015-08-09T08:25:52.425-07:00I appreciate this. It's so important to have t...I appreciate this. It's so important to have that. We've never had to use a safeword, but if I used it, things would stop and we'd have a long, long chat!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-76281557249088790192013-01-19T16:25:00.929-07:002013-01-19T16:25:00.929-07:00I hope Vic likes the post also. His moving you pat...I hope Vic likes the post also. His moving you patiently forward and collecting different & useful tools along the way will definitely benefit you both in the future :)MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-79241400889952522142013-01-18T18:20:00.187-07:002013-01-18T18:20:00.187-07:00What a great post, I can't wait to share it wi...What a great post, I can't wait to share it with Vic. We are still taking baby steps but are moving forward and I see different levels of spanking in our future. Thanks for helping us all.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12593540781048637365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-61857229971590852892013-01-18T00:49:04.446-07:002013-01-18T00:49:04.446-07:00Knowing that what you're finding here is helpf...Knowing that what you're finding here is helpful is a wonderful compliment. Thank you and Alec.MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-32067958290162129552013-01-17T20:26:13.971-07:002013-01-17T20:26:13.971-07:00Thank you for another great post! So much of what ...Thank you for another great post! So much of what we've learned here is working it's way into both our notebook and lifestyle. <br />CatrinkaCatrinkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12766125301061269235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-35615126911625286622013-01-17T02:48:05.309-07:002013-01-17T02:48:05.309-07:00Hi Mbc, Good question and one that I have been get...Hi Mbc, Good question and one that I have been getting a few of through email or G+ chat. The short version answer would be to study the Progression of Discipline & Tolerance LaDDer articles that are part of the ADDS Free DD Guide. Using the information found there in your Sit Down Discussions and implementing Experiment Spankings will help you and your HoH to develop your own individual understanding of the difference between Disciplinary & Punishment Spanking based on your personal tolerance levels. That's why it's important to work on strengthening communication and experimenting first. I would be happy to elaborate in detail if you'd like to email me. I also assist anyone through chat who is using the ADDS Guide. Anyone using the ADDS Guide can include me to your Google Talk using the ADDS email address adomesticdisciplinesociety@gmail.com or include B Blazer to your G+ chat. I'm always happy to help, and thanks for a great question :)MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-33671147056867318912013-01-17T02:29:31.277-07:002013-01-17T02:29:31.277-07:00Thanks lillie! I'm sure you're always good...Thanks lillie! I'm sure you're always good so you wouldn't have to worry about any spanking other then the good girl ones! lol :DMrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-24608570106288352702013-01-17T02:23:51.456-07:002013-01-17T02:23:51.456-07:00You're welcome Ronnie :) Like yourself, most c...You're welcome Ronnie :) Like yourself, most couples with some experience don't use the Sws often. MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-90675476479815948012013-01-17T01:54:13.830-07:002013-01-17T01:54:13.830-07:00Hello mr BB
I live reading your posts. This one do...Hello mr BB<br />I live reading your posts. This one does have a lot of information. But if I'm honest I'm finding it hard to understand the difference between Disciplin and punishment spankings. <br />I know it has probably been mentioned but could you please elaborate a bit on this subject. <br />Thank you Missyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01538411414301188386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-25256702193696107142013-01-16T17:17:50.515-07:002013-01-16T17:17:50.515-07:00Very informative post, Mr. BB - although the title...Very informative post, Mr. BB - although the title when it came up on my blog roll, scared the bejeezus out of me....<br />Ian calls them spankings, and I don't like to refer to them at all - except to ask for the good girl ones :D<br />hugs<br />lillieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-36615429409370380082013-01-16T07:45:35.822-07:002013-01-16T07:45:35.822-07:00Thanks for the post DD. Very informative. We'v...Thanks for the post DD. Very informative. We've always had a SW and I've actually used it once.<br /><br />Love,<br />Ronnie<br />xxronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-48315254203568544842013-01-16T00:33:15.873-07:002013-01-16T00:33:15.873-07:00Hiya Zoe. Thanks, always happy to share :)Hiya Zoe. Thanks, always happy to share :)MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-88347823303914561102013-01-16T00:28:58.597-07:002013-01-16T00:28:58.597-07:00Hi Roxanne, thanks for stopping by and commenting....Hi Roxanne, thanks for stopping by and commenting. Just found your new blog. Good idea & good start!MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-73360179324063424052013-01-15T21:03:52.425-07:002013-01-15T21:03:52.425-07:00Thanks for the great information. I'm sure it ...Thanks for the great information. I'm sure it will help many. Zoehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14996372521289523525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-59047276432716082342013-01-15T14:26:30.982-07:002013-01-15T14:26:30.982-07:00Thanks Steven & Emma. I was a little wary of p...Thanks Steven & Emma. I was a little wary of posting these practices all together, but I hoped posting them in a linear format first might be more helpful later when they are posted as separate articles. MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-28038428626080333572013-01-15T14:19:59.012-07:002013-01-15T14:19:59.012-07:00Hi Ami, Safe Words are meant to alleviate some of ...Hi Ami, Safe Words are meant to alleviate some of the unknown or "scary" for both partners when they're beginning their DD relationship dynamic. SWs are usually needed when the couple is approaching Disciplinary Spanking so the SWs are mutually understood and in place way before a couple progresses to Punishment Spanking. Email me with your other questions Ami, or IM on G+, I'm always happy to help :)<br />I hope Starman is feeling better very soon.<br />MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-45346533130308774162013-01-15T14:08:25.049-07:002013-01-15T14:08:25.049-07:00This was very informative and helpful. Thank you ...This was very informative and helpful. Thank you so much!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15450800481865581546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-40375113309742729802013-01-15T10:24:36.575-07:002013-01-15T10:24:36.575-07:00Lots of great info here.
I think you've hit ...Lots of great info here. <br />I think you've hit the nail on the head.<br /><br />Thank you,<br />EmmaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-8948700545121043002013-01-15T09:09:07.999-07:002013-01-15T09:09:07.999-07:00Really useful post again Mr BB. Just the sort of ...Really useful post again Mr BB. Just the sort of information I needed at this time. Due to certain circumstances (Starman's had to have some tests at the hospital and I'm to teary to talk about them at the moment) we've had to take a bit of a raincheck, but this keeps me feeling positive. Things had been going so well, even without much in the way of spanking. <br /><br />The thought of safe words is a bit scary to me. I can't get my mind around that level of punishment. But maintenance and stress busting have become important, and at the present time I feel like a caterpillar that is not able to shed its skin! How do other people manage in times of crisis? I try to be submissive in my mind, but the stress is once again building up. <br /><br />In a fortnight we get the results of the tests. I want, truly, to remain calm and be very supportive, but I'm feeling so needy. I never knew I would ever, ever have such feelings about spanking. Any advice? You are always good at hitting the nail on the head!<br /><br />Hugs, AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-16808673680271553982013-01-15T02:50:32.443-07:002013-01-15T02:50:32.443-07:00Hi Riley. Yeah, I tried to squeeze a lot into this...Hi Riley. Yeah, I tried to squeeze a lot into this one. lol<br />I agree that SWs are a good communication tool to have available.MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-84014682353612993002013-01-15T02:46:11.805-07:002013-01-15T02:46:11.805-07:00Hi June, A positive approach using communication &...Hi June, A positive approach using communication & with no negativity or retribution that leads to a clean slate :) That's so important in a DD dynamic. MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-20492976759867802762013-01-15T02:40:19.354-07:002013-01-15T02:40:19.354-07:00Thanks Rose. I agree, having SWs in place is essen...Thanks Rose. I agree, having SWs in place is essential to safety and a consensually agreed upon relationship. MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.com