tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post3541930711701163344..comments2024-03-20T18:53:12.809-07:00Comments on A Domestic Discipline Society (ADDS): Domestic Discipline: Communication is a Key to DDMrBBSpankerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-13085833550545215062016-06-14T16:38:44.983-07:002016-06-14T16:38:44.983-07:00I have never practiced a DD relationship but I fee...I have never practiced a DD relationship but I feel like it would suit me best. I have alexithymia (difficulty experiencing, expressing, and describing emotional responses) and it prevents me from building relationships with others. Or just makes very difficult. Is there any advice you could give me? Or is it not worth trying? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-20146259606042026012013-08-04T13:30:56.283-07:002013-08-04T13:30:56.283-07:00one of the ladies in the chat room earlier today s...one of the ladies in the chat room earlier today suggested I look into this post....THANK YOU!!! This is one that I will need to read over and over to absorb all the helpful points. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-91687420550295557162012-11-27T15:36:12.534-07:002012-11-27T15:36:12.534-07:00Ah ha! It looks like we have another member from a...Ah ha! It looks like we have another member from an ADDS discussion group who found their way here! :)<br />Thanks for the compliment, but there are many people who have been sharing about the DD lifestyle for a long time. MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-60555953016223889242012-11-27T15:31:55.798-07:002012-11-27T15:31:55.798-07:00I'm so sorry you were having difficulty and I&...I'm so sorry you were having difficulty and I'm glad to hear you're finding your way back and honored that you're using this site to assist you in revitalizing your DD relationship. I think of it this way... We don't charge our friends when we share our opinion with each other, or if someone asks for some friendly & experienced ideas. I don't personally have anything against anyone who honestly sell things from their site. I buy stuff from them! But anytime someone says they're trying to help others from a friendly & altruistic place, they do it for unselfish reasons and they don't ask for anything in return. There's a difference and I am so happy people like yourself have begun to see that difference. Just sad you had to go though what you did first.MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-61191880351105050372012-11-14T11:33:52.089-07:002012-11-14T11:33:52.089-07:00Thank you for the many years of great DD advice! A...Thank you for the many years of great DD advice! And thanks for being the original DD go to guy lol Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-44426453608729741872012-11-11T10:57:59.754-07:002012-11-11T10:57:59.754-07:00I am starting your process of revitalizing a DD re...I am starting your process of revitalizing a DD relationship. I am embarrassed to admit that I was misled by a blog that has now been revealed as a fraud to make money. I even bought an online ebook thing that was stolen from free online information. My wife has lost some confidence in my ability to lead our DD marriage all because I was suckered in by someone who didn't have a clue. Thank you for giving all of us a free place to learn and sharing everything for free. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-57259015740965962022012-11-06T10:18:44.094-07:002012-11-06T10:18:44.094-07:00It's so nice to see when people are in a DD st...It's so nice to see when people are in a DD style relationship dynamic of any kind, their communication skills do open up and get stronger. MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-56744108105176042002012-11-06T10:17:22.315-07:002012-11-06T10:17:22.315-07:00So true June. I agree that any relationship is an ...So true June. I agree that any relationship is an ongoing quest for knowledge of one's self and their partner.MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-67102065141488797432012-11-06T10:14:46.835-07:002012-11-06T10:14:46.835-07:00That's wonderful to hear! Keep coming back and...That's wonderful to hear! Keep coming back and passing on your ideas and knowledge to those starting the process after you :)MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-89702196270192333342012-11-06T10:12:45.693-07:002012-11-06T10:12:45.693-07:00Thank you Lillie! I like the cornerstone & mor...Thank you Lillie! I like the cornerstone & mortar analogy. I've always spoken of the similarities of DD as a foundation and the individual ways people live it as their household that is built up it :) MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-43925167504198181682012-11-04T19:21:55.609-07:002012-11-04T19:21:55.609-07:00We all know people where the relationship ends thr...We all know people where the relationship ends through a lack of communication. They are living separate lives concurrently. Even though we really don't practice a traditional dd, we espouse many ideals that are encouraged. I love that ttwd has helped us work on bettering our communication.Minielle Labraunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16206283897752166320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-47568447245827515052012-11-03T19:33:23.222-07:002012-11-03T19:33:23.222-07:00Ward and I actually had this conversation not too ...Ward and I actually had this conversation not too long ago, or should I say we have it often when friends ask for advice - there is no arrival, it is a journey, not a destination. We are always learning and growing and changing. We can't be stagnant, stagnancy creates a climate where it is too easy to take our partners for granted. <br /><br />We constantly work on our communication, and constantly challenge each other to make sure we are being completely open and honest. Every relationship should be one where the harder work starts after you win your prize, but so many think you can stop trying once you 'catch' your partner. Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-5472398445823889182012-11-03T13:19:48.456-07:002012-11-03T13:19:48.456-07:00I have been using the DD posts you talk about here...I have been using the DD posts you talk about here as a "how to guide." for a month. It is working! We have the TIH List and HoH Rules in use and have 2 Sit Down Discussions every week. Communication has never been better and it is finally working after almost a year of trying! Thank you Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-80302101979264759502012-11-03T11:41:47.404-07:002012-11-03T11:41:47.404-07:00Great post!
There is no question that communicatio...Great post!<br />There is no question that communication is the cornerstone to the lifestyle and patience is the mortar.<br />lillieAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12062533298458764009noreply@blogger.com