tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post5860285392590243337..comments2024-03-20T18:53:12.809-07:00Comments on A Domestic Discipline Society (ADDS): Beginning Domestic Discipline Plan & Process / Your DD Plan MrBBSpankerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-38636680330368010432016-03-22T08:18:11.785-07:002016-03-22T08:18:11.785-07:00Hi, I too am completely new to the DD lifestyle an...Hi, I too am completely new to the DD lifestyle and until recently never knew it existed. When I was a child the only way I could be held in check was when my mother physically punished me. It's only now 34years later that I realise that I need this sort of dynamic in my life. I've made some very bad choices in my life and I wanr/need/crave to change them. I met a guy online a while back and we started chatting on the phone, emailing etc.we both want a DD relationship however where he has experience I have none. I want to learn as much as I possibly can. I don't think I could ever be in a 'vanilla' relationship again and although this feels so right it also still feels like there's something wrong with me. I've a stubborn, rebellious nature and can have a temper problem. I don't want to ruin a fledgling relationship. Like Jane I'm also a bit wary of the punishment side as he has said if I've been really bad or its a repeated offense shell use a cane. If I'm wary of the spanking I'm shaking at the thought of a cane. <br />Please help.<br />KarenSimba1966https://www.blogger.com/profile/15903243359210206570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-60805376766940807392013-01-29T08:45:26.432-07:002013-01-29T08:45:26.432-07:00Jane, helping people out when they're beginnin...Jane, helping people out when they're beginning their DD dynamic is something I have been doing for years, and I am very comfortable with helping you out. Please email me.MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-42963634239779895812013-01-29T06:30:10.270-07:002013-01-29T06:30:10.270-07:00Hi we are not in a dd realtionship as yet but afte...Hi we are not in a dd realtionship as yet but after about six months of reading and trying to get my head round it i really know this is what i want but i really feel i need someone to talk a little more about it. My husband has only ever spanked me in a playful type way usually when we are being intimate. I really surprised myself by telling him a couple of days ago that I wanted to be disciplined and punished for real and to be given a real spanking I have written a letter to him explaining in more detail But like i have been over the last six months I am scarred to give it to hm. First and propably mostly i am afraid that he will not accept it - when i told him that I was quite surprised at his reaction while he didnt just jump and do something ( I knew he wouldn't n) but he just expressed resevervations that he didn't want to hurt me. I said I thought he was meaning that hurt meant - injury and I reasurred him that the type of spanking i was talking about was not likely to injur me. He sort of seem to accept that. I asked him to think about it and he didn't say no. I also feel afraid secondly because I am scarred of the actual spanking but i know thats natural and there would be something wrong with me if i didnt fear it. I just want your advice as to how to proceed i am really afraid of putting him off but its taken so long to say those words and I sort of feel i should keep the ball rollling please can you get back to me soon this is really getting to me i just feel i can't put it off much longer. the reason I want to have this in my life is becuase of my bad temper - and thats a really long story and also i am realizing i have little or no self discipline in my life so thats why i feel i need taken in hand. <br /><br />please please help <br />JaneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-43704276084541225162013-01-25T14:11:12.470-07:002013-01-25T14:11:12.470-07:00Hi Blondie, I hope the information is useful to ne...Hi Blondie, I hope the information is useful to new and experienced people alike. It's an ever growing relationship dynamic that can be continually cultivated through the years to fit each couples needs :) MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-5829066196589387742013-01-24T21:59:45.520-07:002013-01-24T21:59:45.520-07:00Like Kady, I wish that I had all this information ...Like Kady, I wish that I had all this information when we first started ttwd. Actually, when we started, we didn't even know that other people were doing it or that there was a name for it. LolBlondiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10990349853331249894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-76512276946765728042013-01-23T19:02:36.865-07:002013-01-23T19:02:36.865-07:00I agree about having a plan. Before we had a plan ...I agree about having a plan. Before we had a plan we were always stating and stopping. When we started a real plan that all stopped. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-229378780807316902013-01-22T18:01:02.886-07:002013-01-22T18:01:02.886-07:00You are very welcome, and thank you for the kind c...You are very welcome, and thank you for the kind compliments.<br />I look forward to reading your blog too. I went there and enjoy your writing style and how you share your DD life :) MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-28978944395491032012013-01-22T17:56:57.984-07:002013-01-22T17:56:57.984-07:00Thanks! I hope you continue to find the ADDS site ...Thanks! I hope you continue to find the ADDS site interesting & informative :)MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-7848688271173442312013-01-21T18:17:47.654-07:002013-01-21T18:17:47.654-07:00I wish I had this three years ago when JJ and I st...I wish I had this three years ago when JJ and I started our DD relationship! We've waded the waters but we're well on our way now. I love what I'm reading here so far! Thanks for the great information.<br /><br />KadyKadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09654246453764176113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-52199341667919213372013-01-20T16:29:53.359-07:002013-01-20T16:29:53.359-07:00I cant stop reading. I am new here and love all th...I cant stop reading. I am new here and love all the information!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com