tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post6944580770890617846..comments2024-03-20T18:53:12.809-07:00Comments on A Domestic Discipline Society (ADDS): 50 Shades of Grey E! Entertainment & Our America with Lisa Ling TV Show AlertsMrBBSpankerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-68200859378272397932013-04-04T11:52:37.363-07:002013-04-04T11:52:37.363-07:00I have read the book, and it is kinda choppy and l...I have read the book, and it is kinda choppy and literary rough. But it is a "stepping" stone for some to explore and at least talk about experiences and fantasies to there partners. So for what it's worth to the vanalia world.... Good job to the author. HAPPY READING https://draft.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=8597976223711754736#allpostshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12315500578403633230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-44214021817130983582013-02-03T09:27:27.058-07:002013-02-03T09:27:27.058-07:00Thanks for posting the links. There was a U.K docu...Thanks for posting the links. There was a U.K documentary on 50 shades which included interviews with couples into the 'lifestyle'. Will be interesting to see how they compare...Lottie Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06810071317154530494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-12590612655680712752013-02-01T07:30:47.832-07:002013-02-01T07:30:47.832-07:00I watched both shows and found them interesting. L...I watched both shows and found them interesting. Like or dislike the 50 Shades books, they have been a major piece of the puzzle that has opened up discussions & parts of the media that wouldn't have been happening in the same way just a few years ago.MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-90966429501346072082013-01-30T14:45:45.236-07:002013-01-30T14:45:45.236-07:00I began my "research" prior to the 50 Sh...I began my "research" prior to the 50 Shades craze. It was the books and the cultural response to them that gave me the courage to come out to my husband. The perceived kink factor was just too intimidating for this former mini van driving, PTA, soccer mom. Boy, have I been enlightened! Since beginning Dd, neither of us if afraid to discuss "taboo" subjects. We have embraced a very different kind of intimacy. Even if we were to choose to remove the discipline aspect, we couldn't go back to what we had before Dd. It's changed us and our relationship dynamic. Catrinkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12766125301061269235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-90384653258294210542013-01-29T15:30:19.638-07:002013-01-29T15:30:19.638-07:00Exactly as Elle said - my fantasies were so hidden...Exactly as Elle said - my fantasies were so hidden - even from myself - the book helped open up the idea for me, which led me to google, which led me to blogs... and my marriage is amazing now too. I am glad and grateful that the book helped to open people up to some of the options out there - but I didn't think the book was well written nor did I like the idea that the main character was "50 shades of f****ed up." I think that there are a lot of well adjusted people who like the D/s, BDSM, DD dynamics, the author didn't need to justify the need to be a Dom with a back story of an abusive childhood... I also found the storyline implausible but to be honest I bought and read the next two books of the series to read the sex scenes more than the story...just my 2 cents...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15450800481865581546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-40171379822868732112013-01-29T07:26:31.611-07:002013-01-29T07:26:31.611-07:00I read it and it ultimately was what led me here. ...I read it and it ultimately was what led me here. I found myself googling different aspects of the story, found some blogs and websites and let it go. I revisited the websites, googled to find more, and brought the idea of DD to my husband. <br /><br />I liked the books, liked the story line, hated the grammar and typos in the book and all of the "murmuring" or whatever it was, lol. Without the books, I wouldn't be here. My marriage wouldn't be as amazing as it is now and I wouldn't have my online blog family. :) elle :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15832857681848198913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-4676420873177827972013-01-28T22:15:35.550-07:002013-01-28T22:15:35.550-07:00I read it. I believe that it helped people feel fr...I read it. I believe that it helped people feel free to embrace things once considered politically 'incorrect.' If you had any desires or thoughts regarding any aspect of TTWD before--- a person just hid. Now conversations have opened. Minielle Labraunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16206283897752166320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-14646980181346455732013-01-28T20:23:23.654-07:002013-01-28T20:23:23.654-07:00I have not read the books, and honestly have no de...I have not read the books, and honestly have no desires to read the books, but I would watch the discussion on TV if it was available to me at a time I could watch. Interesting how this subject has taken hold of the public since the books came out.Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04713462104350765878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-56456088030822294552013-01-28T17:13:56.077-07:002013-01-28T17:13:56.077-07:00Hi Mr. BB :)
I think you will find your subject ma...Hi Mr. BB :)<br />I think you will find your subject matter very interesting, as this book is quite a cultural phenomenon. I haven't read it, and don't plan to. Ian hasn't read it, so I don't think it would have had any impact on our dd relationship.<br />The blogging community here would have had much more of an impact that any piece of fiction, I would think.<br />Let us know when your book is finished - I would love to read it.<br />hugs<br />lillieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-65041779987915995922013-01-28T16:10:17.851-07:002013-01-28T16:10:17.851-07:00We all started out as wannabes at one time or anot...We all started out as wannabes at one time or another. You have to start somewhere. I think most people are a little kinky but are afraid people will think they are weird or sick. <br /><br />Dragon's Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17464199139125994128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-4033708953049776552013-01-28T10:34:35.397-07:002013-01-28T10:34:35.397-07:00But on the positive side it has become more accept...But on the positive side it has become more acceptable and if it reaches more people and it works for them like it works for us then then I applaud media and more books like this!K. Fox https://www.blogger.com/profile/13720909059524919882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-32561923855734744142013-01-28T10:30:50.811-07:002013-01-28T10:30:50.811-07:00Thanks BB Spanker, I will probably check it out. I...Thanks BB Spanker, I will probably check it out. I am in a relationship that has dynamics of M/s, D/s, DD and we are just recently looking at refocusing a bit more on DD. Neither of us have read 50 shades and from what I've heard about probably won't. My impression of it's impact has been an increase of people wanting to be cool....its of wannabes with no clue have swamped sites like FetLife since the book .<br />Just my 2 cents.K. Fox https://www.blogger.com/profile/13720909059524919882noreply@blogger.com