tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post7996553557089205669..comments2024-02-16T20:07:38.503-07:00Comments on A Domestic Discipline Society (ADDS): Domestic Discipline Lifestyle Community Sit Down DiscussionMrBBSpankerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-8109773741720595262013-05-09T15:30:35.763-07:002013-05-09T15:30:35.763-07:00Hi my husband and I had a very rocky marriage and ...Hi my husband and I had a very rocky marriage and then I found DD, and it changed our marriage in such a positive way. It was a great 2 years of peace... Until I found out he was having a internet affair with a old friend before we started the DD...I left him. That was 5 months ago, I told my entire family they all now hate him. Now we are talking again he has never stopped trying to get me back...I miss him, he wants to start maintenance again saying it will help us, he said it will bring the trust back do you think this will help? I think its too late my family does not like him anymore, but in my heart I miss my HOH and our life but maybe I just miss having a HOH?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-39779159984812016252013-04-19T15:27:57.888-07:002013-04-19T15:27:57.888-07:00This comment/question is answered in The DD Resear...This comment/question is answered in The DD Research series.MrBBSpankerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13157302499211539690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-24229367089957182302013-03-19T09:06:09.422-07:002013-03-19T09:06:09.422-07:00I am a new Hoh, only 6 months but I will try and a...I am a new Hoh, only 6 months but I will try and answer from what I know so far.<br />I started by thinking first about spanking and being dominant. I thought that is what she wanted. It meant more to my wife when I thought more about the relationship first. It wasnt until I started the discussions twice a week that I found that out. In our life it was the talking part that meant more in the beginning.<br />If I was to be able to go back, the first thing I would do after she brought up dd to me would be to begin by having mandatory meetings twice a week and decide what I felt was the best way to lead from those meetings. That way I would have understood what she needed not just what I thought she wanted.<br />I also should have set time aside to read more and we have found everything here very helpful. And as a new HOh I have found several things written here that look like they are speaking right to me as a new HOH. <br />Thats my opinion. JonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4052470763687451894.post-68981936428542864922013-03-17T09:35:37.812-07:002013-03-17T09:35:37.812-07:00This all sounds like excellent advice, but what ad...This all sounds like excellent advice, but what advice would you give to a single woman who despite not being owned/in a relationship still needs and craves the control a DD relationship provides? It is not an easy subject to broach with someone new, and I am even contemplating an arrangement whereby I receive regulay discipline from a man I am not in a relationship with (I haven't said yes yet) - do you think this is a good temporary solution or should I just wait and hope to meet 'the one'?<br />Hope it's ok to ask here, I'm really not sure who I should talk to or ask about this. xLMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05648209537418802473noreply@blogger.com