Intros

**USE THIS THREAD ONLY TO POST YOUR INTRODUCTION PLEASE**

Keeping the Intros in one place will make it easier to to access the Educational, Information , Knowledge Sharing and Question & Answer posts & pages as we continue to grow. It also helps newer members of the group get to know us a little better. And readers who are newer to the ideas of  a DD lifestyle, get a more open perspective of the various ways people live their DD lives and lifestyles.
Say hello & let us know how you live, or have lived, the DD lifestyle. If you are newer... share what aspects have drawn you to DD as a lifestyle choice.

**(No personals, links, referrals to your profile elsewhere, questions posed for others to answer or "seeking ads" please)**

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I'll start it off! Here is my Intro:

 I am an experienced HoH, Mentor, Teacher & Dominant man who has respectfully lived the DD style of life for 30+ years. I have learned in that time the beautiful balance between a HoH and TiH can lead to a peaceful place, a tranquil refuge from the often stressful lives we lead,  and most importantly a home where a man and woman can express their love for one another. 
 It takes time and a strong person to understand their Dominant nature. A Dominant is not a dictator. A Head of Household  is more of a guide to take in hand their wonderful submissive partner and guide them both continually along a path of happiness.

I believe it takes a Dominant HoH time to gain the knowledge, empathy & compassion needed to understand the role of self sacrifice, nurturing, patience, firmness and discipline. And how to properly & appropriately correct behavior that the TiH has brought forward as a goal or in areas they would like to improve within themselves. This is done for the TiHs own personal growth and the strengthening of bonds in their sensually unique and positive relationship.
The balance and timing is understood when the HoHs responsibility dictates when a strict hand is necessary and forthcoming, or when holding their loved one in their arms for support & encouragement is a more appropriate and long lasting way to obtain goals and strengthen the intimacy and commitment of their relationship. In any case, whatever decision the HoH makes they follow through with the TiHs best interest at heart with consistency, fairness, aftercare and follow-up. 

 As in many many important aspects of our lives, time and patience bring the highest rewards.
Just because someone is a HoH and someone is TiH, does not automatically make them a relationship match. It does take time to find a person whose ideas coincide naturally with your own to create a peaceful loving relationship built on the general foundation of friendship, love, honesty and mutual respect. And of course, The DD Foundation of Consent, Communication & Consistency. The 3Cs of DD.  

That's  some of my feelings on the day to day lifestyle part of who I am as a person & real HoH/Dominant. There is also more about my thoughts on the the subtle power exchange, sensual, sexual and emotional aspects involved between a HoH & TiH living within a DD relationship. That information is for another post, another day, another time... :D 

> Anyway, I hope that gives you a little more insight into my personal thoughts of the wonderful lifestyle dynamic of a Domestic Discipline relationship.

Respectfully,MrBB
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