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Domestic Discipline Chat Room: The DD Community Chat Room

THE DD CHAT ROOM UPGRADED! New features, check Rules/Entry Page!
Free Domestic Discipline chat room created to build community, ask questions, discuss topics & everything happening in & around the DD Community. Ask questions & get answers LIVE!  Enjoy chatting with friends and making new friendships. Topic Discussions covering everything about DD and DD Friendly Spanking Community. Enjoy! :)

The Domestic Discipline Community Chat Room is based on Domestic Discipline Education, Information and Knowledge sharing,  focused on HoHs & TiHs and those interested in ALL variations of real life Domestic Discipline lifestyles.
Definitely NOT a Play-room or Hook-up room.

As it clearly states on the first page of every ADDS Opening page dating back to 2005, and is posted as part of the Overview Page of this A Domestic Discipline Society site:

A Domestic Discipline Society® is where all the varying styles of  the DD lifestyle are brought together in one place.  A melting pot of open minded people, where no one is judged for their differences. All respectful DD based opinions & ideas are welcome and encouraged. We are all here to share our knowledge and help each other understand and grow in this unique lifestyle. ADDS members share their knowledge with each other through their interaction and getting to know one another. Opinions here are from non judgmental, progressive, receptive individuals who are single, in a relationship or married couples either living within the various styles of Domestic Discipline as a respectful lifestyle choice, or seeking insightful information on the DD lifestyle choice.  

The ideals above will always be what this community stands for, and they fit The DD Community Chat Room. The DD Chat Room is free and open to everyone 18 and over who is seeking DD specific information and respectful friendships. The Chat Room is something that has been discussed for a very long time and I can't be more pleased with how the room has grown so quickly in the first two months. More importantly, the friendships that have grown there and the support and helpfulness of all those who frequent the room is a testament to the caring and supportive nature the entire community. 

I do not see The DD Chat Room as an "ADDS" chat room. It is here for the use and utilization of the entire community. The ADDS site is hosting the Rules/Info/Password page as one centralized place for uniformed information to be gathered before proceeding into the chat room. I have always said that this ADDS site and all the discussion groups are not mine. They are all free and they all yours. 
I have many years of experience moderating chat rooms, social sites and discussion groups. I along with others will be moderating the DD Chat room and we will be seeking Moderators from different areas of the community.

If you're new, have your DD questions ready! If you're experienced come help answer DD questions, bring up DD Topics and consider leading a chat night of your very own. 
The DD Chat Room is open for DD focused conversation All Day Everyday!

Click the link below to continue to the Rules/Info/Password Page & enter DD Chat Room!

Look for this or a similar banner on open minded blogs who like to communicate with their readers:) 


  1. Please Explain the differences between ADD DD LDD CDD sometimes i forget what i am !
    This spot should sorta be like a pill that helps us all and reminds us that we are not alone!

  2. LDD is Loving Domestic Discipline. It began from a well known blog that became infamous when it went from pretty good and then started selling books and other items, and then became very abusive in nature until it was finally pulled from the internet.

    CDD is Christian Domestic Discipline. There's a post here titled What is Christian Domestic Discipline that has a more full description then I could give on a comment reply :)

    ADDS is A Domestic Discipline Society. Umm... you're here :)
    When there was infighting in the DD community I founded ADDS as a place where everyone was welcome to discuss DD and not be judged for their differences. The ideas that DD could be summed up by one couple or a small group or that DD was confined by religion, gender or sexual identity and other divisions were broken. The ideas that DD was individual and all areas of DD are connected by common denominators, not differences, is something that began with the first ADDS group and is still at the foundation of every ADDS group and this site.
    And you're definitely not alone Kim, the ADDS groups have collectively grown into the largest and most active DD community worldwide.

  3. Anonymous8/10/2013

    everyone is so nice and helpfull and welcoming in the room.
    this is the best place for dd information and then when I read something I can go into the chat room here and get more information from many views. I love it. I have been reading dd stuff and living it for a few years and theres never been anything like this before. ther are good places for info, but never has there been a place where EVERYTHING comes together all in one place like this. Amber

  4. LDD has not been removed its the best!! It's where husbands don't go overboard.

  5. I'm new to all of this I began reading about Domestic Discipline a few months ago and I was very interesting to me I found I could connect with a lot of what it was about I would like to have me a n d my husband to try it I believe we both would benefit really I'm kinda lost right now I'm a stay at home mom after working for years and even though I love my kids and I feel very lucky to be able to stay at home with them I feel as though I have no drive my I feel like every day I'm just going threw the motions of every day life I'm happy just not fulfill I know could to better and I need someone to push me I want to please my husband and be the best me I can if had structure and goals and consequences when I fail (getting to the point already) HOW DO I ASK HIM IF THIS SOMETHING HE WOULD LIKE OR BE ABLE OR COMFORTABLE DOING? He has all was been the domonate one but never controlling in such a matter as this where do began or even with dying from embarrassment ANY ADVICE WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED thank you

    1. Jen, I suggest that you simply speak to him when you two are alone and relaxed. Don't dump the wnole DD concept on him at once. But suggest to him that you feel you could benefit from more discipline in your life, that you trust him and respect him, and that when you fail or disappoint him you would like him to take you over his knee and spank you. See his reaction and go on from there.

  6. Anonymous11/19/2013

    Did you try showing him this and other sites?

  7. Anonymous10/11/2014

    Definitely show him this site Jen! Everything about DD is right here, and it is presented in the right way from a person who is the most experienced I have ever found.. He also has a lot of great sites on his blogroll to check out.

  8. This is a great site with a lot of great information. I am very new and just started resesrching when i came upon this site. How do I find people to talk to about questions I have? I tried to get into a chat room but my password wouldn't work...

    1. There is no password needed. Not until you Register your nickname.

  9. Anonymous8/24/2015

    I just want someone to talk to I am a woman who thinks that your man should discipline you and its up to him how far that should go I am really good and do everything I can for my man so it would be hard to punish me for that but I am self destructive and believe that dd is a good thing and what I want

  10. New and don't know where to start


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