Domestic Discipline Aftercare

Aftercare is one of the "keys" that lead to or define a Domestic Discipline lifestyle relationship. 





Aftercare is one of the important keys that lead to or define a Domestic Discipline lifestyle relationship from some other alternative style relationships. This is an area that can be referred to when defining a Domestic Discipline relationship.

We normally think about the importance of a TiH 
receiving Aftercare especially after a strict disciplinary action or punishment spanking. 
And rightly so!



Let's also keep in mind the fact that a HoH is a caring and present

participant in the relationship, not just a "Top" or "Dom".
  
A strict punishment is not easy for a real HoH to give their TiH.                                                                        



Aftercare is also an important time for the HoH to review the reason for the disciplinary action, reconnect and show their forgiveness. And a time for a TiH to feel the warmth of forgiveness.

During Aftercare, or directly following, is an excellent opportunity to also have a discussion about how the TiH felt about and during the Spanking, Disciplinary Spanking, or Punishment Spanking they have just received. 
Communication is an important Key to a Domestic Discipline lifestyle dynamic, and right after a Disciplinary Action is an opportune time to patiently open discussion and communication about the effectiveness so far, and how to continue forward. I like to call these Aftercare Discussions.
* During the Aftercare Discussion is a wonderful time to come up with ideas together on how to avoid the same infraction again.  

Share you practices and thoughts on Aftercare or to answer one or more questions :

* How important is Aftercare in your DD relationship?

* What feelings do you have during and after the Aftercare process? (Aftercare Discussion)

* What are some forms of Aftercare you give or have given or received?

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Related Reading & Research:
Where to Start: Beginning your DD Lifestyle Together > ADDS Free DD Lifestyle Guide
Coming Out about Spanking & Domestic Discipline Desires
How to Start DD Research (Series)Domestic Discipline Marriage: Beginning A Domestic Discipline Marriage 

This article is the latest in a continuing series titled: KEYS to a Domestic Discipline Relationship
All of these below also make excellent SitDD topics.
1) Communication is a Key to DD
2) Domestic Discipline Honesty
3) Domestic Discipline Confession
4) Domestic Discipline Aftercare
5) Domestic Discipline Forgiveness
6) Domestic Discipline Relationship Characteristics: Ethics are a Key to DD
7) Domestic Discipline Key to DD: Patience